Author: winnie mabel

Kenyan gospel artist Size 8 and her husband, DJ Mo, have experienced a relationship marked by both challenges including infidelity claims and resilience. After 11 years of marriage, Size 8 announced their separation in August 2024, citing ongoing marital struggles. Despite this, the couple maintained a focus on co-parenting their two children and continued to collaborate professionally. In a surprising turn of events, DJ Mo proposed anew to Size 8 on Valentine’s Day, February 14, 2025, signaling a renewed commitment to their union. “This is the Lord’s doing and it is marvelous in our eyes! Psalms 118:23. Grateful to God…

Polygamy has long been part of African culture, including in Kenya, where some men still take multiple wives. However, the modern-day man faces a unique challenge- how to practice polygamy without leaving his first wife emotionally devastated or turning his home into a battlefield. Recent dramas, such as Jimal Roho Safi, Amira and Amber Ray or Karangu Muraya, Triza and Carol Kim, have shown just how messy things can get when polygamy is introduced recklessly. So, can a man take a second wife without breaking his first marriage? One of the biggest mistakes men make when bringing in a second…

They say you are what you eat but what if your favorite meals are quietly working against your dream of starting a family? From overly processed junk to hormone-disrupting fast foods, what’s on your plate today could be affecting your fertility tomorrow. While Kenyan millennials and Gen Z are more health-conscious than ever, some hidden dietary choices could be quietly lowering chances of conception. Picture this: You’re in your late 20s or early 30s, thriving in your career and maybe thinking about settling down. But when the time comes to start a family, things don’t go as planned. What if…

Yes, some married men are like first born children when it comes to their wives. In many Kenyan households, married women- whether stay-at-home mums or working professionals- often find themselves shouldering an overwhelming amount of domestic labor, childcare and emotional support. Meanwhile, their husbands, though providers, rarely contribute beyond financial aspects. This dynamic has led many to argue that married men function more like “firstborn sons” than equal partners. A common complaint among wives is that their husbands expect to be catered to hand and foot- meals prepared, clothes cleaned and ironed and even small tasks like fetching a glass…

In Kenya, stories of mistresses, popularly known as “side chicks” or mpango wa kandos, are as common as the morning traffic. From whispered office rumors to full-blown social media exposés, extramarital affairs often end in scandal, heartbreak or even financial ruin. Yet, amidst the chaos, some women reach a turning point- a come-to-Jesus moment if you will- where they realize it’s time to leave. But how does one walk away from an affair with dignity intact, avoiding public shame and personal regret? In my opinion, the first step should be them acknowledging the truth. Many mistresses start off believing they…

Kenyan celebrities have mastered the art of soft life- designer clothes, luxury cars, lavish vacations and high-end lifestyles that scream wealth and success. But behind the glitz, some are drowning in debt, living beyond their means and eventually turning to their fans for financial rescue. This growing trend raises serious questions: Should Kenyans keep bailing out celebrities who fail to manage their finances? Is it clout-chasing or genuine financial mismanagement? And why do some celebs feel entitled to public sympathy when they fall into debt? Recently, the internet was on fire when Khalif Kairo, known for his flashy car dealership…

Today, clout is currency of social media use. Kenyan Millennials and Gen Z have found digital platforms to be a place for relief, justice and sometimes revenge. Families are no longer just dealing with their problems in hushed living rooms; instead, they are battling it out in the court of public opinion. From inheritance disputes to domestic squabbles, the internet has become a weapon- one that can cut both ways. While some hope for support or intervention, the reality is often messier, with unintended consequences that linger far beyond viral trends. We’ve seen this play out in high-profile family feuds…

“Manifesting” is a phrase often seen in comment sections when a social media user updates about their accomplishments including luxury purchases or going on trips and escapades- or have family additions and new jobs. Pop culture defines manifestation/manifesting as the belief that individuals can attract their desires- whether love, wealth, success or happiness- into reality through focused intention, positive thinking and visualization. Manifestation suggests that what you think about and believe in will eventually materialize in your life. This concept has been widely popularized by self-help books and amplified through social media platforms like TikTok, Instagram and YouTube where influencers…

Kenyan social media recently lit up with outrage after Betty Kyallo’s boyfriend, Charlie Jones, made remarks that many perceived as dismissive and condescending toward Mathare slums. His shock at the realities of one of Nairobi’s most well-known informal settlements reignited discussions about class privilege, ignorance and the disconnect between affluent Kenyans and the struggles of the urban poor. “Mathare, I appreciate the favor, but I’m NEVER coming back,” said Charlie Jones in part as he also described the area as having an unbearable stench, noting, “even the air stinks.” While some saw his reaction as proof of how out-of-touch certain…

Polygamy has long been woven into the cultural fabric of Kenya, often framed as a male privilege where one man takes multiple wives, building an empire of lineage and legacy. From political leaders to village elders, many men have embraced the practice, citing tradition, wealth and social status as justification. But as society evolves and gender roles shift, a bold question might emerge- what if the script was flipped? What if women, too, could openly take multiple husbands, dictating the terms of the relationship with the same authority that men have enjoyed for generations? Men-led polygamy, as commonly practiced, is…