- A TikTok user, known as @georgeopado, poured out his frustration on the platform after being dumped by his girlfriend, in an emotionally charged video, where he lamented about the girlfriend not appreciating the effort he used to do
- In the now-viral clip, the man wailed uncontrollably, expressing his disbelief that his actions weren’t enough to keep his relationship intact
- He described the profound emptiness he felt in his heart, having invested so much of his emotions into the relationship, only to be left with a sense of hollowness and despair
A Kenyan man, heartbroken after being dumped by his girlfriend, took to TikTok to share his sorrow, tearfully expressing feelings of worthlessness and self-hatred as his ex-girlfriend left him for someone else.
“It hit me so much, so badly, the woman you pick from nowhere, you give your everything, always comparing you with other men who have more money than you,” he lamented.
“Always bringing silly mistakes, bringing you down and every time you have problems. she wants out,” he added while wiping his face and nose.
He voiced his frustration at feeling unappreciated, disclosing that despite providing for his girlfriend’s needs, including financial support for their child and her meals, she would frequently argue with him over trivial matters.
“She always just brings unnecessary quarrels. Somebody doesn’t appreciate you at all. She is just there. You do all you can. You give everything you pay her child’s school fees, you give her food, good food, you make sure that she doesn’t lack.”
The man said that he felt that she didn’t appreciate his effort and sacrifice as he knew very well that he went out of his ways to satisfy her, including by denying himself essential items like new clothes.
“You make sure you don’t even buy clothes -for yourself- then she is there right now ‘I want out.'”
The man elaborated on the difficulties he encountered in his relationship, stating that his girlfriend was extremely possessive. He explained that she forbade him from speaking to any other women, including her colleagues, fearing that he might be engaging in sexual affairs with them.
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“You can’t even talk to anybody. friend, any female friend, like even colleagues, every time I want out, this thing hurts,” he shouted weeping even more.
“Honestly if I don’t get married nobody should ask me why. I wish her all the best. I don’t have powers to change her mind. I don’t have powers to change everything she has decided. It is what it is,” he cried out.
“This thing hurts, it really hurts, especially when you devote yourself to a relationship, you give your all. Where did I ever go wrong? What did I ever do wrong? Why can’t it always be right with me? I tried to love, I never knew I could be in this situation. I never knew it could hit me this bad,” he implored for help.
“It’s killing me, God help me, please. God help me, I leave it in the hands of God. One day these tears that you brought upon my life, will come back to you.”
The man lamented that he didn’t care and emphasized that he understood the pain he was experiencing.
“I don’t care. I know what I am going through I know the pain I know the pain in my heart right now. I know how I am hurting. I’m really hurting,” lamenting his efforts to maintain the relationship.